Participants: Heidi Hornlein, Mark Davenport, Margherita Crystal Lotus, Cristina Sundström, Hans Kalben, Rayne Dowell
1:18 Hans joins the conversation.
1:48 How do we separate without pain?
2:01 Hans talks about his life.
3:08 Willing to question the beliefs.
3:28 Single for many years – desire to move into a relationship?
4:26 Original source wounding – patterns from childhood.
5:30 The longing for THE ONE.
7:10 It is up to you!
7:40 Assuming full responsibility for oneself.
9:00 Being in a relationship is the school for development.
10:10 Mark: the experiences are not wasted.
10:20 Heidi: about projections.
12:05 Catch oneself when the projection begins.
13:20 Don’t begin a relationship when you notice projection?
14:25 Margherita’s is not single but whole.
14:56 Dancing the paradox.
15:30 Enjoy living with yourself!
17:15 Our first relationship is with ourselves!
18:15 Start a relationship as friends.
18:50 Calling in the ONE.
19:05 Conscious uncoupling before looking for a new relationship.
20:34 The One is not what you think it is…
21:30 Relationships don’t need to last the whole life.
22:08 Cristina about separation.
23:45 If you give too much space to the other… establishing the rules.
25:55 Rayne about what we were taught: to look outside of ourselves.
26:24 Sit back and decide for yourself WHO you are.
27:25 Being whole and happy – singles.
28:36 Pioneering these new types of relationship.
29:28 Young people are growing with a different consciousness than we older ones (H+M).
30:00 The assumptions of previous generations.
30:34 Cats enter the scene.
31:32 We don’t have the language yet for the new things/consciousness now emerging.
32:35 Rayne tells about herself: intuition and getting to know yourself and your own gifts – going through the wall.
35:45 Painful breakthrough.
36:15 Comments: Women have duties towards men in Moslem cultures.
37:00 Liberation from these duties in Western cultures.
38:00 Men, get prepared!
38:22 The duty goes both ways – the liberation is for both!
39:24 Traditional worldview also in European countries.
40:18 Integral Map.
41:32 Why development is NOT “going down the drain” – things become more complicated, but….
42:30 With the responsibility for our own choices comes also the responsibility for our mistakes – but more options become available.
43:35 Heidi’s experience when the partner wants you to stay little.
44:20 Going along with the norm is more comfortable, but not authentic.
45:53 Quality over quantity.
47:00 The road less travelled – but so much MORE.
48:00 Thinking about oneself in a different way is harder than changing views about others.
48:40 Our biology is hardwired: paradox between wanting to stay the same and be curious.
49:30 Exploring humanity by exploring ourselves = next step for humanity right now.
50:20 A product of this point in history.
51:00 What if world conditions change?
51:45 Development goes 2 steps up and 1 ¾ back again…
52:00 Question about 7-year cycles.
52:35 Translation and transformation.