The learning continues: Live Streaming and Website

After negative experiences with a virtual assistant I convinced myself that I had to learn how to do the website stuff myself – another huge challenge which cost me an incredible amount of my life time, but I learned a lot again. I started to create the new website www.TheWisdomFactory.net. Our live shows were now programmed, streamed and archived there. After the death of Google+, which we had used for the hosting, many experiments with comment plugins were part of the extended learning. I became a “tech guy” to an extent which I never had imagined and actually never had wanted to be. Necessity builts skills…

Mark and I interviewed many people from the integral scene, Jeff Salzman, Keith Witt, Terry Patten, Bence Ganti and many many more less know people who we had met in person at the integral conferences or online. We invited those people to talk about their specific topic, we created connection and a pleasant atmosphere for them and they taught us a lot of their fields.

Here I want to give you an overview of the topics we welcomed, I will talk about them in detail later. 

In  January 2015 we started an extensive series about relationships, personal relationships and business relationships, called “Stop the RelationShit” https://thewisdomfactory.net/stoptherelationshit/

From June 2015  we did several shows with Lawrence Gold. In the following Mark and I hosted an online course for Lawrence on his “Gold Key Release”. It is still accessible to those who registered for it https://thewisdomfactory.net/the-gold-key-release-with-lawrence-gold/

If there is interest I might publish it on the website during 2021.

Some examples of the series in 2015

2:27​–4:10​ Lawrence intro’s himself 4:27​–5:50​ Mark’s testimony 6:00​–7:16​ How it works 9:06​–10:55​ Suppression vs. Release 11:03​–12:12​ What situations is the Gold Key release good for? 14:24​–16:26​ Limitations and how to to get free of them?: The Four Ways: Attention, Intention, Memory, and Expectation 20:04​–21:32​ Comparing suppression to release 23:46​–24:30​ What about limiting EXTERNAL circumstances? 28:40​–36:40​ The structure of the Gold key release using a lack of money as a starting point 44:32​–45:33​ The Gold Key Release doesn’t erase emotions, just frees you from their grip when inappropriate. 51:47​–52:55​ What kind of person does this procedure work best for? 58:46​–59:46​ A short testimonial from Kimberly and Lawrence comments on it. 1:00:16​–1:00:47​ Heidi’s brief report of her experience 1:02:28​–1:04:54​ How long does the course take?

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Timestamps: 00:00​ – 3:40​ Introductions 04:10​ – Varied responses to our publicity and first question: What is sexuality? and Christiane responds, “generative energy that creates form out of chaos.” She explains…. 06:62 – Erotic intelligence as one of Wilber’s/Gardener’s lines of intelligence? Perhaps the primary intelligence that has allowed us to move beyond simple survival. 9:40​ – Why do we have such a problem with sexuality? Religion, money, etc…. “…our culture has evolved to be anti-human.” 12:25​ – Are we moving toward humanization of our culture? Christiane thinks so, of necessity. 14:00​ -How basic and preoccupied we are with sexuality for very good reasons, not only for ignorance 15:45​ – Good relationships and good sexuality reinforce each other? Chemistry and more… 17:35​ – Creating relationships “so that” we can become mystically poised to offer ourselves in all our activities for a better world. 18:50​ – Is emotional intimacy necessary for a sexual relationship, for example, pornography? 22:00​ – Pornography can create a feeling of wellness and safety, which backfires on us. 22:30​ – 24:00​ Are romance novels like pornography for women? No, not quite! 24:00​ – 26:07​ Lack of caring touching for boys after age 5 -7 26:07​ – 28:23​ How that works for girls and the outcome orientation it induces 28:24​ – Big question from a male watcher: How males…can relate to women affectionately? 30:06​ – 33:48​ Slow down! even though it may be unpleasant sometimes. Sensate focus. etc. 34:12​ – Presence (mindfulness, embodiment) is at the core! 35:50​ – What if orgasm isn’t the end of sex, if it continues past that? And how do we get there? 37:00​ – How long is your menu? It’s infinite! 38:50​ – Play! It’s importance and women’s (especially) changing map of sexuality. 40:14​ – 42:02​ MANopause! 42:02​ – 46:13​ The stages of sexuality over our lifetimes 47:17​ – 49:16​ The later years? What’s coming? Deep, almost rumbling, earthquakes…. 49:16​ – 51:40​ The denial of our down and dirty humaneness in favor of “transcendence”…savoring both the up AND the down 51:41​ – Blab connections (blab.im/traviata56), some personal notes, how to reach us, how to reach Christiane: christiane@me.com, the rewilding.com, magnificentlover.com